I was browsing on Facebook while taking a break from a paper
I’m working on, and an article from CafeMom popped up on my feed. Every once in
a while, they get something interesting, so I clicked and decided to blow a few
minutes reading the article.
The article in question was about a ‘Simple Thing Moms Use
Every Day Causes Thousands Of Toddler Head Injuries’. It was about shopping
carts, and the seats the kids sit in. And I’m not talking putting the car infant
seat on the cart or anything like that. That is definitely unsafe… but the cart
with a child of the proper age and size in the seat.
Come on. Really?
Who else can see the big boo-boo in this pic? Anyone else see the un-buckled strap? |
Out of those statistics in the article, that “24,000 children are sent to the ER due
to shopping cart injuries “ each year, how many of those kids weren’t being properly
supervised by the caregiver? The article tells about how 70.4% of the accidents
are due to children falling out of the cart. If you’re keeping a proper eye on
the child, how in the world is it falling out of the cart? I’m not talking
about hovering over the kid the whole time, but it’s usually pretty easy to
tell when the child is trying to stand up in the cart or is shaking the cart so
rough that it could tip… how hard is it to step in and, if the behavior
persists, take the child out of the basket and hold their hand while finishing
the shopping? I’ve had to do that a few good times, take my daughter out of the
cart and hold her hand while I pushed the cart, all because she would not sit
still in the cart and knows how to un-strap her seat belt in the cart.
The other 29.6% of injuries are from
children running into the cart, falling over it, having a
body part trapped in it, or having the cart tip over… that sounds a LOT
like someone not keeping control of their children in the store, and letting
them run wild… I’m not saying children should be perfect little angels, but
they don’t need to be running rampant in the store either. Think about it, how
many times on a trip to the store have we seen a child running up the aisles,
the parents not watching at all, while the child gets into everything??
It’s not safe. And we
can’t and shouldn’t blame anyone but the parents if something happens to
happen. My daughter walks alongside us at the store. She is 2 and a half. If
she were to climb a shelf because we stopped watching (Which does not happen,
by the
way, she generally knows if not in the basket, to hold a hand) then that would be our fault. Not a faulty shelf, not the store, not a shopping cart… but ours.
way, she generally knows if not in the basket, to hold a hand) then that would be our fault. Not a faulty shelf, not the store, not a shopping cart… but ours.
You take
responsibility when the lack of attention results in the child getting injured.
And it sucks, you feel like shit, you learn from it, and you move on. This is
like the people who were misusing the Bumbo seats, so they had to do a recall…
When the item is used the right way, the way it’s meant to be used, it’s safe.
It’s not safe when used improperly, nothing is.
Example of Child Running Rampant. (Yes, I am aware it's a commercial) |
My TV is safe on the
entertainment center. It’s not safe if I try to play catch with it. My blender
is safe on the counter, used as instructed. It’s not safe if I set it in the
bathtub and stick my hand in, and turn it on. Same concept.
And I understand the
article saying we can’t watch the child constantly AND shop for food at the
same time. That said however, I see many parents who just wander up and down
the aisle while the child is parked and sitting in the cart, bored as all get
out and trying to get up and stand in the seat. And MANY of those parents would
get pissed if someone stepped in and told their child to sit in their seat so
they didn’t fall.
Please, if you’re
going to use a shopping cart, be safe. Watch your child. Take responsibility
and keep your child seated and buckled, or make them hold your hand while you
walk. So many accidents could be prevented with proper use of the shopping
cart.
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